On Monday, I received a devotional in my email that discussed family inheritance. It was so good I wanted to share a few things.
- There were some great questions brought up, here’s two that I wrote in my journal – What blessings and curses does your lineage carry with it? What family troubles have you seen, what miracles of restoration?
- It brought up the subject of forgiveness. That’s a subject God has been bringing to me a lot lately. In devotionals, in my quiet times, even in my mom’s group – God’s tapping me on the shoulder…saying “Forgive, as I have forgiven.” In the devotion, this statement hit me hard – “We should not have unfinished business at the end of our lives, for we’ll only pass it along to those who follow behind us.”
- The lineage of Jesus is also brought up. His lineage wasn’t perfect – but he was. This is to be an encouragement to us. Break the chains of brokenness and suffering in your family and chose to start a new lineage. A great heritage. “I choose to be a blessing in my family tree. What about you?”
I leave you with this – What’s Your Family Inheritance? Is it what you want it to be? Forgive those that have hurt you and move on. Remember, forgiveness is a choice. And you can’t truly worship God until you forgive those that have hurt you.
Below is a prayer and some application steps. I hope it helps you as it helped me.
Ask God to remove any anger or resentment in your heart, and choose to forgive those who have passed along troubles to you. Choose also to forgive yourself.
Examine your family tree. If there are family members no one talks about, ask questions and break the silence where needed so true healing can begin.
Seek God when discerning where to go from here. Who do you want to be? Take full responsibility for the person you have become and choose to change those parts of you that are simply a result of past hurts.
Be a prayer warrior for your family, especially for those seen as “black sheep.” Pray for your children and for all who will come after you. Pray for God to use you in a powerful way to positively affect their lives and lineage.
Whom in my family do I most take after? Who has had the biggest effect on my life?
What branches in my family tree are unfruitful? Which are full of life?
Is there any “unfinished business” I need to deal with?
Isaiah 61:4, “They will rebuild the ancient ruins and restore the places long devastated; they will renew the ruined cities that have been devastated for generations.” (NIV)
Genesis 12:2, “I will make you into a great nation, and I will bless you; I will make your name great, and you will be a blessing.” (NIV)